I noticed that there are a lot of posts regarding cats so I would like to ask your advice. I live in the middle of a terrace which backs onto another road of terraced houses. Consequently the gardens are a highway for a lot of cats. Most just make there way past but one cat has taken to sleeping on our garden bench occasionally and that is not a problem. Over the last year his visits have gradually become more frequent. He has slowly become less nervous and even lets us stroke him as we pass - and will 'allow' us to give him cat-treats. He looks well cared for but despite making enquiries, I have no idea where he comes from. But twice in the last couple of days he has just come into our kitchen and 'miaowed' for the treats. This in itself is not a problem but I don't want the cat adopting me - I'm not in a situation to have a pet and I certainly don't want to steal somebody elses. So, should I stop feeding him? Should I (gently) chase him away? What do you think I should do, please?