Carers organisations in your area
They often provide clubs, may provide befrienders and respite, do assessments and assist with grants
You may also find that depending on the illness, disability or condition your loved one suffers from that there may be a further carers group within their organisation, such as Alzheimer’s and Dementia, Parkinson’s, Heart attack and Strokes. Some offer excellent training , support and even counselling sessions.
http://www.carerssupport.org/